Our counseling unit for September is all about problem solving. Every problem that a student may face (for example: peer conflict, bullying, peer pressure, rumors/gossip, making mistakes, etc) comes with choices. In other words, the options we have for trying to solve the problem. During this unit I stress to students to think about the consequences (both good and bad) of each choice BEFORE deciding what to do. Students learn a problem-solving model called the STAR model to recall and apply this information. The STAR model looks like this:
S: STOP Take a deep breath, identify the problem.
T: THINK Consider your choices and the consequences.
A: ACT Make the best choice and do it.
R: REFLECT What was the outcome? Is the problem solved? Would you make the same choice next time?
In grades K-2 we discuss how often times when faced with a problem, we have the choice of trying to handle the problem ourselves, or involve a trusted adult. There are lots of strategies kids can use to solve problems on their own; however some problems need adult attention right away. During this unit and the relationships unit we review tattling vs. reporting:
Tattling: Trying to get someone in trouble; can handle by yourself; unimportant; harmless situations; behaviors are accidental and only happen once.
Reporting: Trying to keep people safe; have tried to solve it on your own and need help; important; harmful, dangerous, or threatening situations; behaviors are purposeful (mean) and happen repeatedly.
This information is reviewed in 3-5th.
It is always helpful to reinforce the concepts we learn at school at home. If you have any questions, please let me know!
It may seem hard to believe, but summer is already coming to a close and it's time to get back into the school routine! With the first day right around the corner, here are 6 tips to help you and your kids get the year off to great start.
Tips are from or adapted from The Official Spark Blog. For these tips or more visit http://www.sparkpe.org/blog/8-essential-back-to-school-tips-for-parents/
It's been a great year!!! Enjoy your summer vacation and we will see you in the fall!
Walnut Street School dismisses at 12:00 on Thursday, June 2nd.
Wright Elementary dismisses at 12:30 on Thursday, June 2nd.
In our last couple counseling classes, we are talking about summer safety. Review these tips with your kids all summer long!
Credit to Indiana University Health:
The end of the year is almost here! The weather is getting warmer, and we are all gearing up for summer. The end of the school year brings lots of fun activities - but it is also a crucial time to get in essential learning and skills that will prepare your student for the next year of their educational journey. To maximize your students success during this part of the year, please take a look at the tips below and don't hesitate to contact me if there is anything I can do to help during these last few weeks.
"Tips to get your kids through the end of the school year" from Today's Parent:
1. Stick to routine! "As tempting as it is to slip into summer-relaxed mode, don’t abandon the routines and structures you’ve relied on all year."
2. Take it outside "Research shows that spending more time outdoors improves children’s concentration in school, lessens aggression and improves their ability to cooperate."
3. Plan ahead "Get a head start on preparing your child to make the transition from one grade to another, and from in-school learning to summer learning. If she’s struggling at school, schedule a meeting with the teacher and get some suggestions on enriching summer activities to help her improve her skills"
4. Acknowledge progress "Encourage your child to reflect back on her school year and think about what she’s learned, what was challenging, how she dealt with it and what she’s proud of."
For the complete article from Today's Parent, please click here
This year we are pleased to bring back the Child Assault Prevention (CAP) Program at Wright Elementary, facilitated by Blank Children's Hospital. The program will be presented to our kindergarten, second, and fourth grade classes.
The CAP Program works to prevent assault and violation of rights for children. The program approach includes classroom workshops for children, adult education for parents, and school staff education. The student workshops are taught in a 90 minute class and cover empowerment skills such as self-assertiveness, peer support, and identifying trusted adults. Interactive role plays demonstrate problem-solving for unsafe situations such as bullying (peer to peer assault), abduction (assault by a stranger), and sexual abuse (assault by a known person). The program approaches prevention in a developmentally appropriate fashion, from a perspective of human dignity, mutual respect, and basic human rights. Everyone has the right to be safe, strong, and free!
Adult workshops cover the prevention and empowerment strategies given in the children's workshop and offer suggestions for effective ways to support those strategies at home, school, and in the community.
For more information about this empowering personal safety program, please visit https://www.unitypoint.org/blankchildrens/child-personal-safety.aspx
Student workshops will be the week of April 18-22nd, in Kindergarten, 2nd, and 4th grade classes.
*Note: Information about this program and an opt-out form was sent to parents the second week of April. If you have any questions or concerns please contact me.
In the elementary years, students are navigating their relationships with peers and how to behave in different social situations. A huge part of this is learning conflict management, and how to deal with hurt feelings resulting from social interactions.
An issue that comes up commonly in these developmental years is rumors and gossip. Talking about others behind their backs, or spreading stories - whether they may be true or untrue. This type of behavior can be very hurtful, and can even cross into bullying territory. It happens inside close-knit friend groups, as well as through classroom acquaintances. Access to technology and social media can perpetuate the problem. It is important for children to understand the power of their words and the damage rumors and gossip can do. I do a lesson with 4th and 5th graders on this subject in the fall, but find myself revisiting the subject throughout the year, whether with individual students or entire classrooms. It is helpful to have an ongoing discussion of important values with your children, and this may be a topic worth visiting.
The following links are helpful parent resources that address rumors and gossip among children:
How to Stop Your Child From Gossiping:
Surviving the Rumor Mill:
This week during classroom guidance our fifth graders are hearing from a guest speaker about Project Safe Place and Youth Emergency Shelter and Services (YESS).
You have probably seen the signs for Safe Places around town - at various gas stations, fire stations, etc. This is an important resource for students to know, in case they are ever in an unsafe situation or need somewhere to turn for help. The employees at Safe Place locations have a protocol in place to assess and provide the proper help to youth in need. In Iowa, Project Safe Place is coordinated by Youth Emergency Shelter and Services (YESS), a vital community resource that provides emergency services to youth and their families.
For information on Project Safe Place, please visit:
For information on Youth Emergency Shelter and Services, please visit:
The following is where I will be for conferences. If you can't catch me at conferences and have a question or concern, please don't hesitate to send me an email!
What you'll find:
Here you will find information related to the units we are working on in class, as well as ideas and resources for your student and family. Look around and come back often!