Bullying

The current unit we are working on in guidance is all about bullying. It is necessary that students have a clear definition of what bullying is, and that they know exactly what steps to take to help resolve a bullying situation. For parents, knowing the definition and steps we teach and reinforcing them at home will enhance their student's understanding of the topic.

Bullying is:

1. Hurtful (physically, emotionally, or both)
   
2. On purpose (not accidental)
   
3. Over and over (it happens more than one time)
   
4. One-sided (one person is the bully, one person is the target. There is an imbalance of power. Students have to stand up to bullies without bullying back)
   

Steps to resolve bullying:

1. Tell the bully to "Please Stop!" Tell them you don't like what they're doing.
   
2. Ignore or walk away. Play with kids who are respectful and kind.
   
3. Tell a trusted adult. Keep telling until you get help.
   

Some examples of bullying behaviors we have discussed:

1. Pushing, shoving, hitting, kicking, pinching, etc.
   
2. Name-calling
   
3. Teasing/taunting
   
4. Stealing/damaging property
   
5. Spreading rumors/gossips/lies about someone or talking badly behind their back
   
6. Threats/Intimidation
   
7. Cyberbullying (the use of technology to bully)